Girlfriend.... I'm just asking... What girl are you?
I was reading another online blog and it was EXTREMELY interesting and it was geared towards men.... and it spoke about different types of women and why men should stay away from them.
Girl# 1 is the " PERFECT 10"
She is so perfect that most men are wondering " WHY IS SHE SINGLE?"
This is the type of girl that has the beauty, has the personality, and what guys call " wifey" qualities. But this is where her flaws come into play... she probably has never been without a
boyfriend for more then a month at a time.. So she is CLINGY, NEEDY AND SPOILED.... and these qualities can morph into JEALOUSY and LACK OF TRUST if the man doesn't comply to her need to be in his face all the time.
Girl #2 is the "DRUNK & HOT GIRL" or " THE BAD GIRL"
She is the girl who knows all the hottest hang outs and clubs... If she isn't in the VIP... she isn't in the club. When you see her there is always a drink in her hand.... Her outfit is short , tight and revealing in all the right places. If you run her resume all her past relationships were with athletes, celebrities, or some sort of baller. She is the type of girl that steals the show when she walks into the room. But this girl... Shows no love .. she is an OPPORTUNIST... she only talks to men who can get her to the NEXT LEVEL... buy her the best things and break her off with no questions asked... She is Great to have on your arm but if you ain't talking $$$$$$ you might as well stop talking.
Girl #3 is "MISS I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T"
This chick is the girl who always had her own... and NEVER asked for anything from anybody...
She is the one who always had a job... always had the nicest things. Finished school and always been determined to be on her "A" game. She more then likely has the finer things in life and works HARD for them..And she seems "Perfect" but her issue is she is QUICK to tell a nigga she don't need him. Once her and her significant other get into a little spat -- she feels the need to remind him how far she has gotten without him and how much further she will get without him. these types of statements can hurt a mans ego. and that's why so many quote on quote OVERLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN are also single women.
Last but not least Girl #4 the " GIMME GIRL".
this is the sorriest of them all... She is the chick who is AVERAGE in every department... looks, personality and education. But for some reason she always has her hand out as is the world owes her something. But this girl always finds a FOOL to answer all her request. Usually these are the women who give the rest a bad name.. Lazy, Ignorant and Selfish... She has NOTHING to offer but wants to be catered too. SMDH!
Now in a nutshell maybe some ladies need to re-evaluate themselves and see what category they fit in... are you needy, are you a gold digger, are you TOO independent, or do you really have nothing to offer?
So my question is " Girlfriend ... which girl are you ?" and fellas which girls do you have in your past, present or attract?
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I like to think that my true personality was a mixture of all these. You have to have a balanceand can't be rigid. Being an older lady I'm not any of these girls anymore. I'm more the been there done that girl, looking for someone to be with me. I don't need someone, I want someone. The mistake most women make even the independent ones is they need someone rathr than wanting. So no matter what they say they alwayswind up with the wrong guy.
ReplyDeleteI like girl #3 the best because I feel her love would be the most genuine. If you are a part of her world it’s because she honestly loves who you are and not because she is dependent on you to fill a void, financially, or some other superficial reason. This to me makes the independent chick the best option because when I do finally settle down, I want a woman who will be my life partner or teamate, not wife or girlfriend. So her love has to be unconditional. The #3 chick's only problem is she has her guard up too high, but once you earn her trust then the sky’s the limit. I always encourage my homegirls to try to be the best they can be independently b4 they find Mr. Right because then they make better judgments on who they choose. So I basically agree with Addie.
ReplyDeleteMs. Bonny, I couldn’t find any of your girls that match the ones in my history. I realized you’re missing one of them.
ReplyDeleteGirl # 5 is the "Not Tonight Girl" This is the girl who spends all day watching Maury, elbow-deep in Cheez-its while her man is working for one of the largest corn ethanol producers in the state of Iowa. She barely finds time to feed, clean, or find the illegitimate children she conceived at numerous truck stops along I-80. When her man comes home looking for some of that hot, that wet, that gushy stuff she looks at him like his dick is covered in shit. She makes her escape by saying “Not tonight babe, Basketball Wives is on in two hours,” while her man sits there thinking about how much cheaper, quieter, and odorless a flesh-light would be. She is more interested in hearing Wendy William’s take on weaves than pleasing her man whose sexual organs are in jeopardy of falling off due to years of neglect.
@nillawafer0404 Wow. Where do you find these women? Maybe you need to shop somewhere else. As a woman I couldn't even see having this chick as a friend. I like my friends to be able to make intelligent conversation. You need to cast your net in a different river. BTW how old are you? I'm sure the right girl is out there for you. You seem like a fun guy. I love your posts always Just the right amount of snarkiness.
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